A wealth of information is available to you concerning gay and lesbian parenting. Below we have assembled a small bibliography of some books that may prove useful to you and your family needs and concerns.  This list is NOT EXHAUSTIVE, but more like a starting ground to help aid you in your search for resources.  If you would like to acquire any of these references, click on the cover or the title, and you will be directed to that item's entry at amazon.com:

FAMILIES LIKE MINE: Children of Gay Parents Tell It Like It Is
by Abigail Garner

This book contains Lisa Coons-Anderson's story

HOME FRONTS : Controversies in Nontraditional Parenting
edited by Jesse Wells

Jess Wells, parent and author of Lesbians Raising Sons, has invited a host of alternative family advocates to explore the truths that are not always easy to examine. Amazon.com says of the compilation, "This bracing book should be read by every gay or lesbian parent (or those considering parenting), as well as the health care workers and therapists who counsel them."
THE LESBIAN AND GAY PARENTING HANDBOOK: Creating and Raising Our Families
by April Martin

"The Lesbian and Gay Parenting Handbook covers a vast array of subjects about creating a family, from decision-making to alternative insemination to surrogacy. It includes details on adoption, gay men making babies, coparenting, and legal issues. Martin discusses family roles, dealing with antihomosexual bias, dealing with family crises, and how to handle issues children may have about growing up with gay or lesbian parents. This book should be an essential component of every gay or lesbian parent's--or parent-to-be's--library." - Amazon.com

Families of Value: Gay and Lesbian Parents and Their Children Speak Out
by Jane Druker

"This is a remarkably candid and honest book on the ups and downs of gays and lesbians raising children. Whether the parent is gay or not is essentially unimportant, it is the commitment to caring and providing the best home possible that is the author's extraordinary message. " - one reader's review from Amazon.com
Gay and Lesbian Parents
by Frederick W. Bozett

"This insightful new work deals with all of the contemporary issues concerning parenting by gay men and lesbians. It is designed to broaden readers' thinking on homosexuality and homosexuals in general; to include the dimension of children and parenting within the context of the homosexual family; and to provide specific information about it. "
- Amazon.com
GAY FATHERS: Encouraging the Hearts of Gay Dads and Their Families
by Robert L. Barret, Bryan E. Robinson

"Written from a therapeutic and academic perspective and filled with the insights of gay fathers themselves, as well as the authors (Bryan Robinson is a professor of child and family development, Robert Barret a professor and psychologist), Gay Fathers draws on new research to explain the difficulties that gay men face in parenting, and the ways in which their own feelings about their sexuality can affect their relationships with their children. " - Amazon.com
Considering Parenthood
by Cheri Pies

"This book was a great guide for my partner and I as we make important decisions about having a child. You will find tons of priceless information along with thought provoking exercises throughout each chapter. The author encourages readers to read the book out of order as it pertains to your individual process, however, we found that once we started reading we went from the first page through to the last. " - one reader's review from Amazon.com

THE LESBIAN PARENTING BOOK: A Guide to Creating Families and Raising Children
by D. Merilee Clunis, G. Dorsey Green (Contributor), Merilee Clunis

"This comprehensive and indispensable guide for lesbians raising children, written by two lesbian therapists who are themselves parents, is filled with supportive advice, humor, and wisdom. The book covers a wide range of parenting topics, as well as issues particularly relevant to lesbian families. " - Amazon.com

GETTING SIMON: Two Gay Doctors' Journey to Fatherhood
by Kenneth B. Morgen

"It is an absorbing inspirational journey into one man's obsession to create a family. Not just a gay book this is a profoundly human testimony to the strength of the human spirit. Overcoming all odds, Dr. Morgen and his life partner, Sam, show us how love caring and unshakable determination can triumph over prejudice and disappointment. " - Amazon.com

LOVE MAKES A FAMILY: Portraits of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Parents and Their Families
by Gigi Kaeser (Photographer), Peggy Gillespie, Kath Weston (Introduction)

"The newest picture book about human relationships focuses on families in which the parents are lesbians, gay men, or transgendered persons, and the children are either offspring of one of the parents or adopted or foster children of one or both parents. " - Amazon.com

THE OTHER MOTHER: A Lesbian's Fight for Her Daughter
by Nancy Abrams

"The story of Amelia's conception, birth, and early raising, and of the two lesbian mothers who vie for custody of her without benefit of legal precedent or guidelines, is compelling, harrowing, and heartrending."-LeAnne Schreiber, author of Light Years

THE KID : What Happened After My Boyfriend and I Decided to Go Get Pregnant : An Adoption Story
by Dan Savage


"Best known for his syndicated sexual advice column, "Savage Love," Dan Savage shares his own story in The Kid, a hilarious account of his efforts--along with his partner--to adopt a child. " - Amazon.com

OUR FAMILIES, OUR VALUES: Snapshots of Queer Kinship
by Robert Goss (Editor), Amy Adams Squire Strongheart (Editor)

"As Our Families, Our Values turns upside-down the widely accepted notion that only heterosexual people are entitled to get married, have sex, and rear children, you gain insight into personal struggles and affirmations that testify to the spirituality, procreativity, and wholesomeness of the diverse relationships of the Lavender community. " - Amazon.com

THE QUEER PARENT'S PRIMER: A Lesbian and Gay Families' Guide to Navigating Through a Straight World
by Stephanie A. Brill

"More and more gays and lesbians are choosing to parent, and the challenges that accompany this choice can be difficult. The Queer Parent's Primer helps make the endeavor a positive, productive one. " - Amazon.com

THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO PREGNANCY FOR LESBIANS: Tips and Techniques from Conception to Birth : How to Stay Sane and Care for Yourself
by Rachel Pepper

"This lively and readable book provides basic pregnancy and preconception advice for lesbians and their partners. " - Amazon.com

THE VELVETEEN FATHER: An Unexpected Journey to Parenthood
by Jesse Green

"Journalist Jesse Green's delightful memoir makes it quite clear that the pleasures and perils of parenting are always the same--even for a gay 37-year-old man who stumbles into it by falling in love with a person who has an adopted son. " - Amazon.com


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